[I:0:J] Searching for a foreign bride, girlfriend or friend online? If you are looking, then you probably have come across a scammer or two. Scammers are girls that make you think they are real, yet in reality they are not. They are just looking for money.
If you read my last article, I explained to you about a scammer. I also explained what to look for when talking to someone. I also wrote a little about a scammer's main goal and objective. If you missed that article, you can still read it on my blog.
What I am going to talk about now will show you how to ensure the lady you are talking too is not a scammer. There are ways to ensure your fiance, girlfriend or friend is not scamming you. There are little things that will take the worry out of meeting a foreign woman.
How do you know if the girl you are talking to is real? It is an unfortunate part of dating someone from another country, but it is also the most important part. Take my words seriously and really work on ensuring the girl is real.
There are a lot stories all over the internet about scammers and how they take advantage of men looking for girlfriends and wives from abroad. Unfortunately none of these stories ever turn out with a happy ending. Most turn out with men losing large sums of money, their identity or getting physically hurt or even killed.
Ok now let us get into this. The first thing you want to do is ensure that you are using a recommended dating site. I highly recommend these two websites. Elena's Models and Kiev Connections are both scammer free and very reputable. You can't go wrong with these two.
Now if you are a little light on money or just don't want to use a reputable website, then you are going at it alone. Now I am hoping that you meet someone through a friend or family member. If not, then it is very important that you ask for her mobile number. No matter the financial situation almost every single woman in Europe, Russia and former Soviet Republics have a mobile. If she says she does not have one, then you should question her motives. Every woman that I talked to in the Ukraine immediately wanted to talk to me and would give me their mobile number. Even the poorest girls had numbers. Yet if a girl said no, then 100% of the time she turned out to be a scammer.
Every woman in Russia and former Soviet Republics love gifts. They actually expect you to send flowers or roses for certain holidays. It would be normal for you to ask for their mailing address. Now you might want to wait a few weeks or even a month to ask for the mailing address. Some girls are shy and do not want to give it out until they know you a little bit through email correspondence. So be patient, but if after a month you are still not getting an address from the girl you are talking to, then there is something wrong.
If you get an address from your girl, send her flowers and have the flower agency take a picture of her receiving flowers. If the address is correct, then she will be at the address and she will look like the girl in the picture. Cost is around $5 - $10 USD for a picture. I know of a few guys that had their girl's picture taken and she looked nothing like her picture. It is a big disappointment, but better to know up front.
Lastly if you have doubts about your girl, then send an investigator out to take a look for you. You can find these investigators online. Some are expensive, but they will investigate addresses, phone numbers and even take pictures of your fiance, girlfriend or friend for you. They will let you know 100 percent if she is real or not.
If you plan to visit her town and you are not sure that she is real, it is very easy to hire a bodyguard to accompany you around town. I know a number of business men that use body guards when abroad. Often times the fees are negotiable.
Your gut feeling is often times your best defense. It is really hard to doubt the person you are trying to build a relationship with, but you will develop a much stronger and more meaningful relationship by removing all doubt. - 18256
If you read my last article, I explained to you about a scammer. I also explained what to look for when talking to someone. I also wrote a little about a scammer's main goal and objective. If you missed that article, you can still read it on my blog.
What I am going to talk about now will show you how to ensure the lady you are talking too is not a scammer. There are ways to ensure your fiance, girlfriend or friend is not scamming you. There are little things that will take the worry out of meeting a foreign woman.
How do you know if the girl you are talking to is real? It is an unfortunate part of dating someone from another country, but it is also the most important part. Take my words seriously and really work on ensuring the girl is real.
There are a lot stories all over the internet about scammers and how they take advantage of men looking for girlfriends and wives from abroad. Unfortunately none of these stories ever turn out with a happy ending. Most turn out with men losing large sums of money, their identity or getting physically hurt or even killed.
Ok now let us get into this. The first thing you want to do is ensure that you are using a recommended dating site. I highly recommend these two websites. Elena's Models and Kiev Connections are both scammer free and very reputable. You can't go wrong with these two.
Now if you are a little light on money or just don't want to use a reputable website, then you are going at it alone. Now I am hoping that you meet someone through a friend or family member. If not, then it is very important that you ask for her mobile number. No matter the financial situation almost every single woman in Europe, Russia and former Soviet Republics have a mobile. If she says she does not have one, then you should question her motives. Every woman that I talked to in the Ukraine immediately wanted to talk to me and would give me their mobile number. Even the poorest girls had numbers. Yet if a girl said no, then 100% of the time she turned out to be a scammer.
Every woman in Russia and former Soviet Republics love gifts. They actually expect you to send flowers or roses for certain holidays. It would be normal for you to ask for their mailing address. Now you might want to wait a few weeks or even a month to ask for the mailing address. Some girls are shy and do not want to give it out until they know you a little bit through email correspondence. So be patient, but if after a month you are still not getting an address from the girl you are talking to, then there is something wrong.
If you get an address from your girl, send her flowers and have the flower agency take a picture of her receiving flowers. If the address is correct, then she will be at the address and she will look like the girl in the picture. Cost is around $5 - $10 USD for a picture. I know of a few guys that had their girl's picture taken and she looked nothing like her picture. It is a big disappointment, but better to know up front.
Lastly if you have doubts about your girl, then send an investigator out to take a look for you. You can find these investigators online. Some are expensive, but they will investigate addresses, phone numbers and even take pictures of your fiance, girlfriend or friend for you. They will let you know 100 percent if she is real or not.
If you plan to visit her town and you are not sure that she is real, it is very easy to hire a bodyguard to accompany you around town. I know a number of business men that use body guards when abroad. Often times the fees are negotiable.
Your gut feeling is often times your best defense. It is really hard to doubt the person you are trying to build a relationship with, but you will develop a much stronger and more meaningful relationship by removing all doubt. - 18256
About the Author:
Art Saborio is a K1 Fiance Visa Specialist. His very practical Do it yourself step by step method to K1 Visa Success is now available on his site. Also don't miss out on his blog, with infomation on the "ins and outs" of finding your Foreign Fiance
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